mystery pick up August 2, 2007

The word 'Slut' is a weapon that women use against other women
Women have a powerful interruption mechanism known as anti-slut defense,
or ASD. Not only does she prefer to avoid having others perceive her as a slut, which would pose dire consequences to her social status, but also she wants to avoid the discomfort of feeling like a slut. Thus she has the ASD interrupt mechanism to help her avoid this fate.
ASD is what makes a girl blurt out 'I have a boyfriend' (whether she actually does or not) — because you escalated faster than she was comfortable with.
Time in the field will eventually improve your calibration to the point where you can escalate without activating her ASD. Chapter 6 describes how to escalate smoothly through the use of false disqualifiers.
The Mystery Method 27
Plausible deniability
She will never do anything during the pickup that makes her feel responsible for what is going down. To whatever degree she feels responsible, her ASD will be activated.
Thus she has a need for plausible deniability. For example, if you were to say to her, "Hey, let's go back to my place and have sex," she will have to say no, even though she wants to say yes, because saying yes would make her responsible for what is happening— which she can never do.
But if instead YOU were to say, "Hey, let's stop by my place on the way to that party — I have to show you mv tropical fish." Well, she now has an excuse and plausible deniability to stop by your place and then — oopsie— have sex with you. "One thing led to another..."
This is why serendipity is so romantic. After all, if it was meant to be, then how can it be her fault? Who is she to deny Fate?
Act with moxie

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